last Dinner

Yes, after a long time connecting with readers. We all know how special is VALENTINE’S DAY for everyone. The day of LOVE , Many people celebrate their love for their partner by sending cards or letters, giving gifts or flowers and arranging meals in restaurants yes even i did this with my family. 

My uncle the chirpy, buoyant, lighthearted person turned 53 on 14 February,2017. The most happiest day for everyone. Whole family gathered to celebrate this beautiful day. He was totally a god gift for us. Everyone was overjoyed by his presence. After a felicititious celebration all had a good delish, royal, fit for a king like dinner with him a perfect mouthwatering Marvari cuisine and he was on cloud 9 no one is ever going to forget his shine that he had. 

But god was having some other plans. Day after a big celebration he got a brain stroke and hospitalized for 5 dreadful days. Fighting for life people where coming asking about his health giving positive hopes and days went. The person who was suffering the most was my aunt. Like a silent yet faithful companion, she waited. And waited, till at last he could take his hand and leave the living;  The hand that had been offered was warm, familiar and a giver of true happiness. But she could not yearn for that. It was forbidden. Sparing the man a last glance, she sped off into the comforting folds of darkness, cherishing the sweet smile he had bequeathed her as he stepped into a place of light. 

Everyone lost a best man they had in their life.Who has always looked for the best in others and given them the best he had; Whose life was an inspiration; Whose memory a benediction.I was his proud and I will never disappoint him. I feel so fortunate that i was a part of his last happiest moments which became a lifetime memory that is never going to fade away.  

A hero is someone who has given his life to something bigger than oneself.” 

We know that every living thing is going to die one day, so like him let’s celebrate each and every day of our beautiful life. Enjoy every moment with each other with love, joy and respect.

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think win-win

     Steve is a middle aged man who always like to wrapped up in oneself most egocentric,hoggish and very gluttonous sinner of one of the 7 DEADLY SINS. Suddenly by having no clues becomes sick and that’s were the cookie crumbles. The sickness moved from door to door like a button salesman and just as unwanted.The medicines ran dry in days and no medics would answer a call. finally his judgement day arrive with SAINT PETER wearing the pallium. First he asked him if he would like to go in HEAVEN or HELL. Steve asked if he could see both before deciding. St.Peter took him to hell first. He stands on a midst of a vast darkness and was on a dull spotlight. Fear hits him like a falling tree in an ice storm. He saw rows of people with pale, remorseful faces. They all looked starved and crestfallen. He observed one more thing. Their hands were tied to four-foot forks and knives and they were trying to get the food from the center of the table to put into their mouths. But they fail to do it. The worse the deeds the more intense the anguish.

     Then, St.Peter took him to see heaven. Where he could not recall the pain of dying. There he saw a big hall with a long table, with lots of food. There he noticed rows of people on both sides of the table with their hands tied to four- foot forks and knives also. But here people were laughing and all were well fed, generous and healthy looking.They smiled and laugh with ease. The people were feeding one another across the table. They were all good spirits. The result was prosperity, gratification, opulence, Euphoria, exaltation because they were not thinking of themselves alone; they were thinking WIN- WIN. The inferno was gone and his foot was on the placid ocean, the sunset was glowing orange ahead behind his came a gentle voice telling him he is forgiven as he realized all his wrong deeds.

 “No one is useless in this world who lightens the burdens of another.

      The same is true of our lives. Every person is born with the power of Love in their souls, a divine gift from the creator. When we serve our environment, society, companions, family we automatically WIN. All one need to do to enter is to work with the power of love and be a force to bring more love into the world.
#humanity

     

It’s the little things that make a big difference

A man was taking a morning walk on the beach. He saw that hundreds of starfish came in with the tide, and when the tide receded, the starfish were left behind on the beach. With the sun’s rays, they would die. The tide had just gone out and the starfish were still alive. The man took a few steps, picked one up , and threw it into the water. He did that repeatedly . Another man came along who couldn’t understand what this man was doing . He asked, ” what are you doing? There are hundreds of starfish. How many can you help ? What difference does it make?”  This man did not reply, took two more steps, picked up another one, threw it into the water, and said, ” it makes a difference to this one.” 

” Do something for today that your future self will thank you for.”

What difference are we making? Big or small, it does not matter. If everyone made a small difference, we’d end up with a big difference, wouldn’t we?

Things won’t change until and unless you don’t try to change. 

#change.

THEY LEAD TO BELIEVE

It is truly said that STUDENTS LIFE IS GOLDEN LIFE. A learning period where we develop ourselves with the help and guidance from our professors.But i believe true knowledge only exists in knowing we know nothing.From last 18 years of my life i am meeting these wonderful angels disguised as teachers. Who enlighten all my way to success, who LEAD TO BELIEVE in myself. 

” The duty of an educator is to teach students to see the vitality in themselves.”

Still remember that day 19th july 2012 when he believed in myself when no one else did. I can still visualize the whole scenes. But the great lines by him was “you are already a winner, before you were born,and were still too tiny for the human eye to see,You won the race for life from among 250 million competitors.Then now that you are a giant, why do you even doubt victory.having all the facilities given by god ” still remember these beautiful lines that always inspires me the basics for achieving anything beyond the ordinary. I would be grateful to mention his name prof. Samir khot sir best biology sir i ever had. 

Who will forget this great funny man who always guide me, showing me the do’s and don’ts of media. Coming a way long from ulhasnagar to kandivali just to teach and making us a better citizen of the society. Posses human qualities that we admire most honest and straight forward by nature, humblest person i ever seen. He is the paragon of goodness, the moral and wise teacher whom we are positioned to empathise with. I truly believe that I will be able to shine in any sphere of my life and serve my society and country by his blessings. It’s his unique guidance and methods that urges me to excel in all that i do. A small thanksgiving to you sir. For all your hardwork and time.

Last but not the least LADY OF HUMANITY.  Megha mam who is not only a superb professor but motherly personality for us. Making us a wonderful citizens to create wonders in our society. I blindly follow and love her through all my heart. She is one of the best examples for all aspiring female professor. Always ready to help others and a great example for humankind. Making our college NSS unit a paradise where only fairies exists.
I just wanted to let everybody know that how much our Professor’s time,effort and hardwork is appreciated.
A very HAPPY TEACHERS DAY to each and every teacher of this universe, who are making our world a better place.

 

CINEMATIC GEEK.

Movies are inevitable for me. My first priority is always to watch a good film that make me to shed tears. Films plays a very important role in our day to day life. Sometimes it also teach us the real meaning of our life. These are some of my few favourite films that changed my life forever and had a great impact on me.

First place will always be given to 

1.ANAND (1971)

“Babumushoi, zindagi aur maut upar waale ke haath hai … usse na toh aap badal sakte hai na main … hum sab to rangmanch ki kathputliyan hai jinki dor upar waale ki ungliyon mein bandhi hai.”

“My friend, life and death is in the hands of God … you can’t change it and neither can I … we all are puppets of the theater whose string is tied in the fingers of God.”

                                    – ANAND 

Directed by one of the finest director of Indian Cinema Hrishikesh Mukherjee. Anand is one of his best works. Chirpy performance by late Rajesh khanna is really unparalleled.He makes you laugh , cry and create anxiety and goosebumps by his brilliant craft. Anand is a story of a dying man who looks at life with a positive attitude knowing fully well that his disease is incurable and he is going to die soon. He wants to fill every life that he touches with happiness. Respected Amitabh Bachchan played a fantastic role of doctor who tries everything to save Anand. Music is the hallmark of all great hindi movies and this one has music ranking right up there, on the top. Be it “Kahin door jab din dhal jaye” or ” Maine tere liye hi saath rang” or “Zindagi kaisi hai paheli”. Film makes you to live each day to the fullest.

2.GRAVITY (2013)

“Either way, its going to be one hell of a ride.

                             – Matt Kowalski 

Amazing performances by Sandra bullock and George Clooney.  Film is full of intense and thriller situations happened in space. Struggle to survive makes you to relate your own story. George Clooney played a best part which enlightens the last hope when every doors was closed for her. Film inspires me rather than losing hope and giving up, the chose to pick myself up, brush myself off, and continue moving with the hope toward my destination. 

3. HACHIKO  A DOG’S TALE (2009)

“Look ,you dont have to wait anymore hachi. Hes not coming back.                                                                                                   – carl

Based on a true story of a Japanese professor in the 1930’s , who’s dog waited every day for him at the train station even after he died. One of Richard Gere’s best performances in years. The film is quite sad, definitely to a cheesy and sappy point. It is hard to not let a tear escape at least once. The dog being so adorable made me lose myself. Pet lovers everywhere will relate to this weepy and wonderful film. This movie teach me there is nothing in this world superior than LOVE.

4. SCHINDLER’S LIST (1993)

“This list… is an absolute good. The list is life. All around its margins lies the gulf…”

                                 – Itzhak Stern

 Film depicts the horror of the holocaust and war. Superbly directed by Steven Spielberg and outstanding performances by Liam Neeson , Ben kingsley and rest of the supporting members. The tagline says “Whoever saves one life, saves the world entire”. Nothing is more valuable than the life of the human. It is a beautiful Black and white film except for the highlighted girl in the red dress, which has a brilliant symbolic meaning later in the film. Film taught me that you have not lived today until you have done something for someone who don’t repay you.

5.DAMINI  LIGHTNING (1993)

“Duniya ki har adaalat se badi ek adaalat haiwoh hai insaan ka apna zameer.

“There is a court bigger than every court of this worldand that is the conscience of a person.

                                          –Govind 

                                    

Damini – Lightning is mostly remembered for Meenakshi Sheshadri ‘s career best performance, the role that became her identity. Film portrays how the power of one’s voice can create a difference in the society. Damini inspires me to always fight for truth no matter how the society reacts to it, to do the right things and stand against injustice. Freely live my life with a sense of self-worth, respect and dignity. Film tells you that your truth is more important than the facts.

Films will always help you to evolve yourself but it depends on you how you take it, as a source of entertainment or a root for change.

MY COLLEGE RECALL.

​The importance of maintaining good and healthy relations with seniors, batch mates, friends and the faculty is known in this important phase of life is College life. It is intresting and joyous and quite different from school life. Best thing about this life is professors make you sleep during day and friends don’t let you to sleep at night.lol! 

College life is a formula of good times + crazy friends = amazing memories

LIFE WITHOUT A FRIEND IS LIKE DEATH WITHOUT A WITNESS.”

Most happiest day of my life.when these people celebrated my birthday grandly threw a surprise party and yes emptied my pocket on the name of TREAT😂. I remembered everything, because the laughter and the bond we had were all good. It saddens me to think that we will probably only be able to see each other on a daily basis for two more years. But, of course, we’re going to fill those two years with memories of our times together.

Our college life will pass like a pleasant dream. But I will always remember those happy moments, pleasures and activities of college life.

BLAST FROM MY PAST.

​Everyone in their life goes through this beautiful nostalgia. Memories of childhood were the dreams that stayed with you after you woke. these memories are so outstanding that they shape our lives, determine character, determine values. Childhood memories are either the fondest ones or the ones that you dread most of all to remember. Don’t you wish you could take a single childhood memory and blow it up into a bubble and live inside it forever?

Through a class activity, I explored few of my childhood remembrances.

OF ALL THE GIFTS THAT LIFE HAS TO OFFER, A LOVING MOTHER IS THE GREATEST OF THEM ALL.”

my mom has been the person that I’ve always looked up to.this picture is clicked in the year 1998 when i was just 5 months old. Naturally it is vague and unclear for me but not for my mother. My parents took me to Matheran so that the nature’s elegant unsullied qualities nutures my fresh organs.

I AM NOT GETTING OLD. I AM GETTING BETTER.”

The first year of life is just one of the many milestones we are blessed with. It was a large and beautiful heartshaped cake dad bought for my first birthday.It was made with fresh strawberries that tasted liked they were picked right from the patch as a filling, surrounded with butter cream icing. Though picture shows I felt rather uneasy, with so many eyes upon me but somehow managed to cut the cake with my parents helping hands. 

GRANDPARENTS IS SOMEONE SILVER IN THEIR HAIRS AND GOLD IN THEIR HEARTS.”

I sustain myself with the love of my family. One of the most powerful handclasps is that of a new grandbaby around the finger of a grandmother. My grandmother and grandfather blessed my soul with their wishes and blessings on my very first birthday. Picture says that my late grandmother’s older eyes and wiser heart telling me to become a good human being. She is still living in my memory as a loving and doting grandma. 

IS SOLACE ANYWHERE MORE COMFORTING THAN IN THE ARMS OF A SISTER.”

I really don’t know why i was crying. But it makes me happy when i see the picture. Because crying on your sister’s arms is a joy. When she is by my side the world is filled with life.she is a blessing who fills my heart with love and a companion whom i can express my feelings. She is one of my favourite cousin sister a memorable picture of her.

A BROTHER SHARE CHILDHOOD MEMORIES AND GROWN UP DREAMS.”

 I cannot believe he was so cute in his childhood. Now he is more like a terror for me nobody annoys me more than he does. We together share a lot of fight and happiness, Though i love him. It seems that day was the last time we were sitting together without having any fight…lol! We don’t hit each other we just high- five on face. I think children’s of the same parents, each of whom is perfectly normal until they get together. We share a very special bond which even our parents don’t understands. This picture is the most special memorable thing i ever had. My blessings are always with him. 

I miss my childhood when the hardest decision was picking a crayon. I think even you miss your’s so take a dive into your memories which makes you special and unique from other’s .
#memories

MY LOVE.

​Skill is a good thing a person gets from childhood. It can be developed at any age however best to get from childhood. We all do some kind of work according to our interest which can give us happiness and joy that is called Skill. Some people get different skills according to their interest, likes and dislikes. There are many type of skills we can develop such as dancing, singing, drawing, playing indoor or outdoor game, bird watching, collecting antiques, writing, eating, reading, sports, playing, gardening, music, cooking, and so many. Our skills help us in earning live hood and make a successful career.skills is something we can fully enjoy in our leisure or free time.It is one of the individuals creative preferences

What i love to do is capturing the moments which stays with us and give a lifelong happiness.

Photography is all about the right angle, correct lighting and great lens. For different types of photos, the lens has to be changed accordingly. If you want more details in your photo, then opt for macro lens.You can see a lot of people taking pictures on their cameras and mobile phones. I mostly prefer my HTC Desire 360.

LIFE IS SHORT. SMILE WHILE YOU STILL HAVE TEETH.”

this is a candid photograph.captured from my friends iPhone 5. The boy melts my wall when he shared the most captivative smile. His eyes, his lips , his soul all at once smiled at me. I saw his soul through his innocent smile and his frolicking on slide. I believe sharing a smile with a stranger is a gift, because it triggers the neurons and the associated happy brain chemicals.

YOULL FIND THAT LIFE IS STILL WORTHWHILE , IF YOU JUST SMILE .”

This picture is much special for me it helps me to remain positive in life and teach me in whichever situation you are in keep smiling. I captured this girl when there was a fire explosion happened in kandivali Damunagar. Many people lost their lives and homes the girl was one of them, she lost everything and begging for clothes and food as an NSS volunteer from NMF college. Me and my friend helped her with some biscuits and milk and gave her clothes from our SHARE WITH CARE activity. Then the smile she gave was a thanksgiving to us. She captures joy with her beautiful smile. The world was a better place when she smiled.

This was just a small glimpse of MY LOVE. feel that I still have a lot of room for improvement in photography. 

MY SELFIE.

Though my name represents light and positivity. I can be rather soft and sophisticated in my nature. I am also easy going till the time I am provoked or instigated. I am known for my determination, though and there is not much that can distract me from my goals
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IF I HATE, I DEPRIVE MYSELF.. IF I LOVE, I ENRICH MYSELF!.

I give a lot of importance to simplicity and stability in life, though many others around me may find me boring and lacking in excitement. I simply refuse to take unnecessary risks that can effect my stability. I also give a lot of significance to create comfort, and can be quite materialistic, but this is what gives me that pragmatic touch. Though I cannot be called an extrovert

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A TRUE FRIEND IS THE GREATEST OF ALL BLESSINGS.

I can be an excellent friend. I tend to assume the role of a protector and guide my friends who are close to me.

I am sensual and simple, and I have a keen eye for all that is beautiful in the world. The most important thing to me is my own set of values. I am extremely down to earth in my approach towards life.

Fortunately, I am usually able to control my actions for good and the result is that my magnetic power sheds a beneficial influence on others. I am large at mind & heart. Always ready to help others. I know how to obtain it and I will never get happiness at other’s cost. I am sympathetic, hardworking, generous, ambitious and friendly but quick to be aroused.

 

All i want to say is love yourself from the core of your heart and the world will love you!